You’re a catch. You know that, your bestie knows that but why do you always get dumped by great guys? Here’s my take on maybe why it happens.
Relationships are a fickle thing. Being good and agreeable ( both qualities that we like in people), somehow backfires when it comes to a relationship. Sometimes, it’s because we’re bored. Yes I said it—bored. The truth is, this is the number one reason guys dump great girls. It’s not like we don’t know you’re awesome, we do, but if you’re going to agree to everything I say/like/do, I’m going to want something new—fast. We
want opinions not minions.
We see the one we can’t have. Okay, here’s another whopper, guys do (no matter how often we deny it) want to date Megan Fox. But we know she’s probably all wrong for us. We know someone like Ms Fox will drive us up the wall, may need constant looking after (since other guys will want to date her too) and might
be quite a drama queen but if we were given the chance, we’d dump you like a hot sack of potatoes.
Which brings me to my next point—we make mistakes. Yup, I’ll admit it, once we’ve dumped a great girl, occasionally we’ll realise that we were wrong. You’ve heard of “buyers remorse”, yeah well this is just like it but in reverse. Sometimes, we get lucky, the great girl we ditched will (to our relief) forgive us and take us back. Upon which we generally spend copious amounts of our time and wealth making it up to her until we’re out of the dog house. Not bad deal for you eh?
*source from http://www.17.com.my
Watch it girls
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